Hey now! We recently had a pleasingly sustained 25 minute conversation with a Millennial !! Usually those conversations are measured in seconds, especially when the young person is in front of you, with a TV on (sports), music playing, trying to type on a laptop, with a mobile phone bonging with incoming texts.
Here’s how it happened: we got the call during dinner, speaker phone on our end, and the conversation ranged from this Millennial’s next visit, to work issues, holiday plans, a vacation plan, to a severe weather warning, even food! One of the last topics was traffic, then it dawned on me: this person was doing hands free driving, still multi-tasking in a way, but only one screen, the windshield. That’s how we could sustain that old school way of communicating, with an oral-aural connection!
It’s amazing how one can sense the engagement once the multi-tasking is pared down a bit. So, when you really want to talk with a restless Millennial, send her or him out for a drive with a hands-free set for safety, and have them call you! And warn them: “Text Neck” is apparently real, cervical nerve impingement as we used to call it, from looking down at one’s phone too much!
Joking aside, let’s give Millennials their due, maybe trying to do too much! Nice report about Millennial caregivers came out a few weeks ago, and here’s a nice graphic from the report: